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My husband is a Christian man and has been since he was little.? He was brought up in a good home with good moral values.? We have had 13 good years of marriage and the last 2 and half have been really hard after I found out that he had been having a emotional affair with a girl from our church.? My eyes where open that day...I had little jelousy at all and didn't question his faithfulness prior to finding out.?

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I started noticing things him looking at other girls and when girls would come on the screen of the tv that where really suggestive he didn't turn his head.? Now there are suggestive pictures of women hanging up at his workplace.? He didn't put these things up but other people did.? You would think as a good Christian man that he would try to avoid rooms with these images in them but it seems as though he is going in some of these rooms with the pictures more often now.? What's more is when going to his office he had recorded Man of the house (he tests tv services for his work) which from the description it says "A Texas Ranger must protect a group of cheerleaders who have witnessed a murder."? Well..what do you think you are going to get with that?? I don't know how much of it he had to watch for testing purposes but from the previews it looked to have quite a bit of suggestive material.? I feel he has/is been/being unfaithful to me with his eyes.????

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Anyway, I'm quite frustrated...I've thought about posting guys all around my house with little on to see how he liked it but I know that wouldn't be the right thing to do.? I've addressed this issue and I've been praying for him and I know things take time but how do I deal with it emotionally until God changes him?? I even got him a book called "Every Man's Battle" for Christmas he says he wants to read it sometime but hasn't bothered to.? He doesn't seem to want to change this.???

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I feel I am a good wife and I don't withhold myself from him and I try to dress nice so that he will be attracted to me but it still doesn't seem to help.?

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I would appriciate help knowing how to deal with this.?

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Thank you,

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Inhwtm

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